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Friday, January 15, 2010

Happy Relationship??


Define "happy relationship". Does it mean in a relationship,there won't be any misunderstanding or argument or fighting then it can only be considered as Happy?
I just don't get it anymore the concept of relationship or love. And it's seriously making me so sick and tired of it. Everything is always so sweet n perfect in the first place before the relationship started off and the words " i love u" been uttered out every 5 mins BUT why does all this has to come to an end once the relationship has been stabilize?
Sometimes i wonder if it takes so hard for a partner to remember all those sweet memories they had been through together. Does almost every couple always forgot what brought them together in the beginning? Why must arguments kill all those good memories and only anger been left in the soul?
Sometimes love is so unfair, the more you sacrifice the more you hurt, and when your given your best to someone you LOVE, it seems not enough til such... time come, you had no choice but to give up.
I'm not having a perfect relationship or even a happy one right now but somehow or rather,i'm still praying everyday hoping that one day,someday I can have back my man that used to love me and cherish me so much. Things changed and feeling grown apart but maybe, me being a girl is too soft-hearted and still never wanna give up on my man . Thinking back sometimes that you already have a lot invested in your partner. Take care of that investment.The payoff is usally greater than starting all over again.